In Meditation: How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind, Pema Chödrön writes:
It is the usual approach; you just try to solve the outer problem again and again and again. But the Buddha said something quite revolutionary, which most of us don’t really buy: if you work with your mind, you will alleviate all the suffering that seems to come from the outside.
It kinda sucks how much we do this, even after we start to realize how stupid it is. What was it that one yoga teacher said?
“Those who believe in existence as solid are stupid. Those who believe that everything is empty are even more stupid.” Saraha, qtd. in Chödrön, pg 137.
It’s not about being stupid. It’s about believing things to be as they appear to be. I can be thick at times and so I fall into this “stupidity” and have to re-learn the things I already know. Problems, like everything else, are impermanent. So, to try to stop that from the outside is somewhat futile, right?
According to the Buddha, the way to fix this shit is to work on the mind. When we see and think differently, our suffering which “seems to come from the outside” will be alleviated.
Dude! Why is it so hard to do what we know will stop the suffering?
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